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Perhaps one of the greatest misconceptions about abortion providers is that we believe that abortion is the best option for all women all the time. I am forever astonished when I talk to people, patients especially, and they assume that I (or any abortion provider) would not support their decision if they chose to carry their pregnancy to term. When I do public speaking events (at high schools, colleges or local organizations) I always make sure to talk about the patients that we see who choose NOT to terminate their pregnancy. It doesn't happen a lot--we are, after all an abortion facility and the majority of women that we serve have already spent a great deal of time considering their options and feel confident in their decision when the come in for their appointment. But there are some women and girls that we see who are either undecided at the time of their appointment, or don't want to have an abortion at all, but are being pressured by others or don't have the support and resources available to figure out a way to continue their pregnancy. As pro-choice medical providers, it is our job to ensure that the women and girls that we see are given the tools and resources to know about reproductive health and to carry out whatever decision they feel is best for their lives. Sometimes that means scheduling a separate options counselling session or giving her some resources and tools to take home so that she can consider her options further. Other times it means that I spend my days figuring out how to help someone continue her pregnancy to term and parent or go through the adoption process. There are two patients that I always think of when I talk about these issues. One was a young girl from out of state whose parents were trying to force her to have an abortion and another was a mother who had just moved to New Jersey from another state. In the case of the young girl, her parents thought that living in a state with parental consent meant that they could bring her to a clinic and consent to her having an abortion whether or not it's what she wanted. It didn't take their daughter long to figure out that if she told the provider that she didn't want an abortion that they wouldn't do one. It took her parents a lot longer to figure that out. They took her to every clinic they could find in their state and finally brought her over to us. Once I heard her story I decided that there needed to be an end to this situation--she was into her 2nd trimester and needed prenatal care if she was going to continue the pregnancy as she desired. It took a bit of work, a few weeks and a lot of phone time, but eventually we were able to help this young woman get her own health insurance, move in with a supportive family member and start prenatal care so that she could continue her pregnancy in a healthy and supportive environment. What she didn't know is that in some states, pregnancy is considered a condition that requires critical care, and in the state of New Jersey she could not be denied access to critical health care (such as prenatal care and labor & delivery care) due to inability to pay. In this case, just a few quick phone calls were able to secure her a doctors visit at a local women's clinic that would help her apply for charity care and start her prenatal care. |
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